In a recent video shared on Facebook on Thursday, March 12, 2026, Niger Delta activist and traditional ruler, Asari Dokubo, offered a glimpse into his personal life, discussing the dynamics of his household and the people he trusts most.
Dokubo highlighted the close relationship he maintains with his family and staff, explaining how trust and discretion play an important role in his home. He emphasized that those who are allowed into private spaces are carefully chosen based on loyalty and reliability.
According to Dokubo, “My wife is like a pastor; the closest person to her, who enters our room to clean, is Lawal.” He made the statement while describing the level of trust he places in certain individuals, particularly in matters involving personal privacy and family life.
He explained that the comparison to a pastor reflects his wife’s high standards and moral authority within their household. Dokubo noted that only those deemed dependable are permitted to handle sensitive responsibilities, ensuring that family matters are kept private and secure.
The activist further stated that cultivating trust and respect among household members is essential for harmony. He argued that transparency, integrity, and discretion are key qualities in those who serve closely within a family environment.
Dokubo concluded by emphasizing that personal relationships, whether with family or trusted staff, must be built on mutual respect and accountability. He maintained that protecting privacy and maintaining a strong support system are critical to managing both family life and public responsibilities effectively.