Nigerian woman Anastasia Odochi Uchenna Ozoemena has offered counsel to women, urging them to ascertain if they truly match the standards desired by the men they are dating, aiming to sidestep potential heartbreak..….CONTINUE READING HERE
As a journalist, she shared this advice in a post dated Monday, March 25, 2024, recounting her personal experience of being abandoned by her ex-partner who chose to marry a recent graduate despite her professional success, possession of an SUV, and frequent international travels.
“It’s actually heartbreaking that in this time and age of knowledge and social media, ladies still cry over a guy that married another person while he was dating them. I know it’s a bad hit. I have experienced it too,” she wrote.
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A guy I was dating in Abuja left me and married a Corps member.. At that time I was covering politics for my station, was driving an SUV, travel abroad, etc. I was a” big girl” by all standard.
My ex was a banker and doing well in his own right. But he married a ” fresh graduate”
As Journalist wey I be, I wanted to find out. I summoned his younger brother and what I heard blew my mind. I was close to the brother while we were dating and of course I was very generous ( younger ones dey like that Kain girl friend )
Back to the purpose of my post.
A lot of times after a guy leaves a lady for another, she begins to second guess herself.
She develops complex issues and believe she is not good enough or something spiritual is fighting her. Go to prayer houses in Aba, na women and girls full am. Half are praying over marriage
Dear sisters, every man has a spec. An idea of what his wife should look like. I mean certain characteristics. If you don’t have it, if you like fine or get money, he will not marry you.
Some men are the only son in the family and parents have warned that they must marry from their state or village.
Some are big on denomination. You must be a member of their church.
Some are big on looks. If you no get big breast or bum bum, you are disqualified
Some need a younger girl they can control. One who will depend solely on them.
Men marry for different reasons. Please find out if you are his spec for marriage.
If you don’t, be rest assured you are a candidate for heartbreak.…..CONTINUE READING HERE
