For a while now, the hashtag #YorubaGuys has been trending on twitter. This hashtag carries all the presumed bad habits of Yoruba boys, especially in a relationship.>>>CONTINUE FULL READING HERE....CONTINUE READING THE ARTICLE FROM THE SOURCE
In fact, they have been tagged ‘Yoruba demons’ in the dating game, with many girls narrating their ugly experience with them. However, the table turned yesterday, when a twitter user came out to assert otherwise.
According to her, Igbo guys are worse than ‘Yoruba demons’ when it comes to disappointments in a relationship.
In 34 tweets, @maryannivy narrated how her relationship with an Igbo guy, simply named Obiora, left her feeling bad. Red the tweets below:
I want to tell a story of my encounter with an igbo demon. The truth is igbo guys are the real demons.. they’re just on a low key.
@maryannivy @AjikeAjoke what do you mean make it clear
1) I met Obiora at UI gate on a very sunny wednesday morning. I had just come from the ATM and was walking to my dept. No change for cab
2) He stopped to give me a ride. I entered immediately whispering Thank God under my breath. The sun was killing a sister.
3) Obiora is goodlooking. Fine eyes, soft spoken, nice hands. We exchanged numbers. I planned to call. I couldn’t wait to see him again.
4) I met with him that very night at conference center. We talked. He was a perfect gentleman. He didn’t display any sign of fuckery.
5) We went to see a movie the next day. The transporter(boring). He was courteous. Opening doors and shii. Comforting a crying baby and shit
— Dieudonne (@maryannivy) January 10, 2016
6) During the movie I told him I was cold. He gave me his socks (still have them) and massaged my feet…
7)… It was the sweetest thing a guy has ever done to me in my whole entire life. I knew this guy was a keeper or so I thought.
8) After the movie he asked me to be his GF and I said yes. After kissing him of course. The kiss always decides a couple’s compatibility.
9)Looking back I see it was doomed to fail from the start. Here was a person I agreed to date after a day. I didn’t even know this guy.
10) Anyway it was a whirlwind relationship just like in those Harlequin romance novels where actions of a life time happen in a day.
11) There were the trips, shopping, surprise outings, whispering of sweet nothings, great sex and money…I was overwhelmed…
12) He was serious too. He always told me he loved me. He introduced to all his friends as the one. He was talking marriage and kids.
13)I started thinking of marriage and kids with this guy. I started thinking of maybe not applying to Yale after all…
14) Telling myself I didn’t need to get a MFA in acting.’Must I even act sef. I could just get a normal job.’ I found myself thinking.
15)I was changing my life plans for a guy I had known for two weeks. It was that strong. I cut off all other guys. I stopped flirting..
16) I was determined to make Obiora and I work.
17) “maybe I was meant to get married at 23 not 27 as I planned.” I thought to myself.
18) I told everyone I had a BF. Which is News. I usually don’t do boyfriends. I’m a FWB type of girl.
19) Anyway, three weeks later, Obiora went to Lagos. He had finished writing his masters exam. He had to go back to work.
20) Our relationship became telephone conversations and texts. He begged me to come spend the weekend with him and I planned to do just that
21) All of a sudden, his calls stopped coming. I started doing calling. He kept saying he was busy. I chilled for a while and he didn’t call
22) “I just wanted to know if you’re alive and you are, bye bye” I said and hung up. He didn’t call me back.
23) He called back the next day and apologised. Saying he was busy, work is killing him. He loves me. He misses me. I forgave him.
24)I agreed to continue although I had shut my heart.
25) For those past two weeks, I was heart broken. I couldn’t get why he just stopped calling and for him to give ‘I was busy’ as his excuse?
26) We started again. And I begun to see him for the asshole he really is. Instance; The first thing he cud ask is when last I had sex.
26) That nigga dumped for 2weeks and the first thing he could as when we sorta patched things up is when last I had sex?
27) I was so pissed. He left me hanging for two weeks and still expected a relationship. How arrogant can a guy be?
28) The straw that broke the camel’s back was when he came to Ibadan to write an exam and he didn’t come to see me. He said no fuel.
28) No fuel? Ladies and gentlemen, he wrote his exam in UI and I live in UI. No fuel?
30) No fuel to see your supposed girlfriend whom you’ve not seen in over a month. Wow. Just wow
I know there are some typos and I’m misnumbering but I’m getting angry over again as I remember.
31) I called 2days later “so aint we going to see?” And he said “its you now. You’re the one who’s busy.” I deleted his no immediately.
32) He has not called since then
33) That was the end. Up till today, I don’t understand what happened. Was it all just a game for him? I guess I’ll never know.>>>CONTINUE FULL READING HERE
