Everyone wants to be loved by their partner. However, at times, you feel your partner is ignoring you and doesn’t care for you. If you think your wife doesn’t love you anymore, don’t feel disheartened.CONTINUE READING HERE>>>
Your wife may be going through a hard time or is genuinely busy with her work or other matters. Misunderstanding is one of the major reasons for bitterness in marriage. So, before drawing any conclusions, try to have an open and honest conversation with her. Tell her your concerns and how her behavior is taking a toll on you. In this post, we talk about some signs your spouse doesn’t love you the way she used to.
Let us have a look at some of the signs to watch out for.
- Communication has become rare: You may notice that communication between the two of you is not the same as before. She may have stopped sharing the details of her day, including work, friends, and family with you, and her behavior towards you may imply detachment and coldness. She may have also stopped seeking advice from you or asking you to do certain things.
Vada Karen, a blogger, points out the differences in communication styles between her and her husband. She says, “When I am upset about something, I want to talk about it. The more I talk, the better I feel. My husband, on the other hand, won’t talk. He just gets more involved in video games or the computer. It feels like he is shutting everything out, including me (i).” If this keeps happening, it can make the wife feel neglected and stop communicating.
In another blog, mother and writer Jenn Wilson recalls the time when the relations between her and her husband were at breaking point. “One step I’ve taken to push us forward: I stopped saying, “I love you” (ii),” she expresses candidly.
Point to consider
The conversation with her is never easy and you feel drained after a few minutes of interaction.
- There is a lack of intimacy: Intimacy is not just sexual. It includes emotional intimacy too. Hugging, cuddling, and holding hands are different ways to express love and share intimate moments. If your wife shows no interest or cringes when you initiate any physical contact and makes excuses to avoid moments of intimacy for no foreseeable reasons, you may need to figure out things.
Point to consider
Sometimes, women may feel exhausted juggling household and professional responsibilities. So be considerate, help her with household chores, and make her feel appreciated.
- She is grumpy around you: You may notice that your wife’s attitude towards you has changed. Her mood may change as soon as you enter the room or initiate a talk. You also experience loneliness and feel empty and unloved even when she’s right before you. She may start minding habits which were irrelevant earlier, and the conversation with your wife may appear more like nagging.
Point to consider
Lack of healthy arguments and fights can also mean your wife has emotionally withdrawn from you and doesn’t care about the marriage.
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- She keeps withdrawing from you: It is important to have some social life outside your marriage. However, if you feel that she enjoys the company of others more than yours, withdraws from you, or is not responsive to you, it could be a sign that she’s not into you anymore. You may also notice that she no longer texts or messages you to check about your day.
- She pays little or no attention: As a couple, you know many things about each other, including your preferred looks, diet habits, etc. However, you notice that of late, she is paying little attention and is affectionless. If your wife doesn’t show any interest in these things anymore and disregards the changes you have made to your lifestyle, then your relationship could be on a downward trend.
- There is someone else: This can be a tricky situation to handle. We meet various people every day, but some connections may be more than formal meetings. If there is someone else involved, she might not feel the same about you.CONTINUE READING HERE>>>
